Affectionate Men-P.D.A

I've noticed a very interesting relationship here in Bangalore.  From my observations and conversations with various Indians, it doesn't appear that it is appropriate for men and women to exhibit public displays of affection.  Rarely do you see women and men hugging, kissing or holding hands out in public. (that is, unless they're trying to cross the busy streets (holding hands)).  However, I've noticed that men often interlock their fingers together and walk hand and hand.  Or perhaps, they have their arms draped around each other's neck.  Their gestures and body behavior is quite loving and affectionate.  Upon observing this, I thought: Wow, I would've never guessed that India was so liberal when it came to gay/queer culture.  That's great.  So, I decided to inquire.  It was quickly asserted to me that India does not accept gay/queer culture and that if it does exist, it is very underground.  I then asked about the PDA of the men.  

The reply was that this is an affectionate way of saying: this is my very close friend, he is my brother.  Oh, okay.  Interestingly enough, women do not do this.  The only time I've witnessed women holding hands is when they're crossing the street.

It's funny how culture alters our perspective.  In the US, these men would have definitely been viewed as lovers and contingent upon their environment, embraced, ignored or rejected.  However, another culture can accept this loving display of affection publicly between two men, then, totally reject the idea of another aspect of intimacy between two men.  

Interesting...